Question about women...

**Turon** · 02-16-2008 08:54 PM

o.k.... our last year in high school and a friend of mine and I just realised how stupid girls can be. How many of them are only concerned with looks (even if they are complete tools). Both of us have girls that are really good friends and we have taken on dates and whatnot. These girls claim that all guys are dogs, yet they are the biggest players we have ever met. My friend and I were raised as gentlemen, yet "the fish aren't nibblin" if ya catch my drift. So my question is, do girls ever wise up later on in life and go for the guys that arent total d-bags, who have complete and utter respect for them, and treat them as humans, not objects?

**RastamanD** · 02-16-2008 08:55 PM

million dollar question man

**The Green Hornet** · 02-16-2008 08:57 PM

Listen, find a women who is finished with menopause she will satisfy your needs she may need to get a lil' moisturized if you know what I mean, they tend to be a bit more dry than young fems.

**onthespoke** · 02-16-2008 09:02 PM

haha, first ,i dont know what kind of women ^he's been dealing with. and yeah, stay true to your upbringing. hold out for the ones who will appreciate your style and manners. they're much more worth it.
and i mean holding out as in settling into a relationship...not holding out holding out

**bucksaw87** · 02-16-2008 09:12 PM

high school chicks are lame, superficial bitches...no joke

wait til you get in college, then about 30% of 'em CTFO and become nice and hospitable (and they're not all ug-dogs!)

i hate to say this, because i HATED hearing this myself, but you just gotta relax, be patient, and enjoy being single. your girl will come along soon enough, you just gotta wait for her to come along

**easy** · 02-16-2008 09:15 PM

In a word, no. Think about it this way; if you had absolutely no chance of being hurt, would bombing a hill or dropping into a pool be as fun?

**WhataRush** · 02-16-2008 09:35 PM

Women will always manage to find a way to Screw up your mental state. Thats when you say #### it and buy your self a new board and go make love the old fashioned way bomb a hill...

or put her on it and give her a good push down the steepest hill you can find when she is no longer able to walk she will respect you then...just a thought

**DK525** · 02-16-2008 10:09 PM

Originally Posted by WhataRush

Women will always manage to find a way to Screw up your mental state. Thats when you say #### it and buy your self a new board and go make love the old fashioned way bomb a hill...

or put her on it and give her a good push down the steepest hill you can find when she is no longer able to walk she will respect you then...just a thought

YouTube - Dane Cook - Brain Ninja

He isn't that funny, but makes a decent point.

**kookyfish** · 02-16-2008 10:49 PM

well not to sure about high school girls now days, but from what I see around, is that they are totally try hards, Like to busy trying to be better then everyone else,(being very paris or super trash)alot of mouthy chicks, Its just the age group your in, , Guys are much the same . But it sounds like your a decent minded one,
My advice would be stay true to what you believe and have a bit of fun now,,, basically just relaxe you`ll most likely go in and out of a few relationships before the "right one" comes along,
Not to sound like the old guy.....but your young just laugh about it, try a few out, be respectful, It will mature your mind and get you ready for the serious ones when your in your 20s.

Big Tip, dont come across needy, a chick will see that a mile away,and cut you down.
just be real confident in who you are, hold your head up, the girls will see that a mile away too but.. thats what most are looking for..... because they want someone to rely on etc,
Theres got to be a book in this somewhere

good luck.

**WhataRush** · 02-16-2008 11:01 PM

Originally Posted by deadkennedys525

YouTube - Dane Cook - Brain Ninja

He isn't that funny, but makes a decent point.

Well all lame jokes aside what i meant to portray with that statement was be confident, do what you love to do. Some lucky woman will notice you because you are happy with yourself and not worried about trivial things. When you finally get to the point where you just dont care anymore and your self confident they will come...So in the mean time enjoy yourself skate everyday, play music or whatever it is you love to do and dont worry about it so much.

**DK525** · 02-16-2008 11:08 PM

Originally Posted by WhataRush

Well all lame jokes aside what i meant to portray with that statement was be confident, do what you love to do. Some lucky woman will notice you because you are happy with yourself and not worried about trivial things. When you finally get to the point where you just dont care anymore and your self confident they will come...So in the mean time enjoy yourself skate everyday, play music or whatever it is you love to do and dont worry about it so much.

I think some girls are starting to see the person inside of the guy and not just what he looks like. Like my gf, I will be the first person to say it I am not that good looking if even at all. And when I am with my gf people think we are related or something and that I chouldn't be with her. She is so pretty but I chould care less about that. Shallow girls are missing out, beause I have known this chick for a while and I have NEVER seen her so happy in my life when she is with me.

I need a beer to feel manly again haha.

**Hmann** · 02-17-2008 12:14 AM

personally id go out and find a Mute woman

**kookyfish** · 02-17-2008 12:28 AM

Originally Posted by Hmann

personally id go out and find a Mute woman

that made me laugh

**Basch** · 02-17-2008 12:37 AM

You're life will be a lot easier when you stop trying to understand woman

**Astaroth** · 02-17-2008 12:59 AM

You're life will be a lot easier when you stop trying to understand woman

Truer words have never been spoken.

**Aaron Breetwor** · 02-17-2008 01:17 AM

it's not women that are difficult, it's girls who haven't grown up.

**HailStorm101** · 02-17-2008 01:17 AM

hey i am a girl and just to tell you, no we're not all like that... i know its hard to beleive but we're not... and sometimes it seems hard to find us but maybe try looking where not where those of High School drama types like to be or at least look behind them

if you know what i mean... anyways dont worry, patience is best, i know its hard but just wait or go looking.... either way there will always be "those" types and the other types.... so all i have to say is patience, and be careful.... also i think its awesome that you were brought up a gentlemen...as much as you think you cant find us it seems we cant find you either... so hopefully one of us "hopefully ""regulars"" " will come your way... and as i said.... there are MANY of us who are not like that..... in some way this is a very confusing message but somehow i hope it helps... sorry, thanks, and well stick to it!

**big_loaf** · 02-17-2008 01:18 AM

Originally Posted by Basch

You're life will be a lot easier when you stop trying to understand woman

Bravo, well said

It's like when you lose your wallet or car keys and you frantically search everywhere looking for them. It always seems like when you give up and stop looking, they just pop up!
I'll add to the "be yourself" type comments as well. If you were brought up as a gentleman, for the love of ####, stay that way! The shallow ditzes aren't worth wasting your time and effort on, you're much better off waiting for a great girl to come along. Waiting might suck, but you know how the saying goes; good things come to those who wait

**Ub3rMario** · 02-17-2008 03:33 AM

Just do what u do. Be u and they will come. Wait for that girl, but in the mean time have some fun with non-relationship girls. That's what being single is about haha. Just because ur waiting doesn't mean u can't make it a good time with girls u know aren't the one.

**simplepsy** · 02-17-2008 03:45 AM

there is some sound advice here, and some SHITE! Im not sure how much of the rubbish is meant seriously tho....

TBH I have had the same issue myself a few times - I dont really sleep round and I always TRY to treat people right, cos you have to, right? (we all make mistakes tho... another story)

I have hooked up with some girls who just thrived on drama, angst and difficulty, and some others who were just plain tools, and treated my like a tool.

They will regret it when you are happy with your sound chick, and they are still dating idiots. You know that saying women love a bad boy? Its kinda true but only until they realise that in their quest for a ''bad boy'' who also makes a good boy friend, they just end up meeting a**holes

Just ride with it, try and get some fun, no strings action whilst you are single and have a laugh, then appreciate the fine lady you will hook up with because the good guys always get the girl (in the end 8) )

Oh - I just thought Id edit - when you stop looking and just relax in yourself, all of a sudden you meet an amazing lady.... I dont know why this is the way but I think we project ourselves and if somethings bothering you then people can read it, especially ladies cos they are more tuned than we are! Any girls on here - admit it - you can read us like hairy books!

And definately dont stop being a gentleman - its the right way to be towards people regardless of sex (or lack of it

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