Relationship problems... ANYTHING GOES!

[Khonsu]

Not to confuse people..My friend=Amanda,Amanda's Friend I like=Ana

Well,I don't know what to do..I actually like Amanda's best friend,Ana,and my friend was kinda talking about me to the girl(Or so I thought) and telling me info,such as what does she think of me etc..Until here OK,I was nice and liking the girl,one day I talked to her and she cut me off with the most stupid excuse I've ever seen,Ana said she needed to talk to Amanda 'coz Amanda was looking for her for along time,but actually I saw she talking to her about 2 minutes before.I stay a lil' down and talking to Amanda about it,but now what happened is that Amanda started liking me because of how well she knew me after I talked to her for a long time period about feelings and girls..Now I wonder if she actually SAID something to Ana about me or even told me the truth about what Ana said.Anyways,now I know why Ana won't stay with me even though she likes me and thinks I'm good looking,she won't do it because of Amanda.And I know well how pissed she'll be if I get Amanda.

What sucks is that I really like Ana.I actually impressed the wrong girl.

Alright! Pause and look over your own situation and figure out the options and future events that may unfold because of what you choose. In a nut shell I would first choose which girl your 95% sure you want to be with and will not have regrets ever being with. I can tell you right now if their best friends you will not get the opportunity to date both of them and that's why I want to first think long and hard on who you want. Once you've done that then you can flirt, like, tell in person that you want to be with them and hope for the best. Just know that if they both like you and you obviously turn one down that person or both may hate you for awhile.

[Largeboarder]

That happened to me once, except, they got in a fight cause they both liked me. They haven't spoken to each other since.

Well, keep pursuing Ana, do something witty and/or sweet.

I will,today Amanda started grabbing my hand all the time and was jealous because I was talking to other girl,she started to say baad things about her.

Alright! Pause and look over your own situation and figure out the options and future events that may unfold because of what you choose. In a nut shell I would first choose which girl your 95% sure you want to be with and will not have regrets ever being with. I can tell you right now if their best friends you will not get the opportunity to date both of them and that's why I want to first think long and hard on who you want. Once you've done that then you can flirt, like, tell in person that you want to be with them and hope for the best. Just know that if they both like you and you obviously turn one down that person or both may hate you for awhile.

Well,I 100% want Ana,but I know she wouldn't let her friend down and wouldn't stay with me,but Amanda would let Ana down with no problem.And I know,not only one of then will hate me for a while,but the other will hate her friend a bit as well,and this sucks.

[pepperdro]

I will,today Amanda started grabbing my hand all the time and was jealous because I was talking to other girl,she started to say baad things about her.

Well,I 100% want Ana,but I know she wouldn't let her friend down and wouldn't stay with me,but Amanda would let Ana down with no problem.And I know,not only one of then will hate me for a while,but the other will hate her friend a bit as well,and this sucks.

based on what you just said, and I don't know how old you are, because I wasn't paying attention, this is bad news. If Amanda is already starting to get jealous at the things you do, and you aren't interested in her, you need to let her know now! This will do 2 things: First, it will let her know that you aren't interested in her as a potential partner, so hopefully she will just back off of it. Second, it will let Ana know without a doubt that you don't have feelings for Amanda, thus making it easier for her to try something with you. Yes, Amanda will probably get hurt a little, but It will be much better in the long run, if you establish and broadcast your intentions now, rather than dealing with the emotional mess later. Trust me, I have been in your shoes... it sucks, but as my pops always said

"It's better to be red in the face for 5 minutes, than deal with a crazy, psycho B1tch for the rest of your life"... My pops is a smart man!

[Jerrdan]

YouTube - The Roommate Switch

[Archy]

So inspired. So devious. Yet so simple.

[whatsisname6]

Amanda and Ana aren't Brazilian names.

P.S.
Which one's hotter?
Just kidding

[Largeboarder]

based on what you just said, and I don't know how old you are, because I wasn't paying attention, this is bad news. If Amanda is already starting to get jealous at the things you do, and you aren't interested in her, you need to let her know now! This will do 2 things: First, it will let her know that you aren't interested in her as a potential partner, so hopefully she will just back off of it. Second, it will let Ana know without a doubt that you don't have feelings for Amanda, thus making it easier for her to try something with you. Yes, Amanda will probably get hurt a little, but It will be much better in the long run, if you establish and broadcast your intentions now, rather than dealing with the emotional mess later. Trust me, I have been in your shoes... it sucks, but as my pops always said

"It's better to be red in the face for 5 minutes, than deal with a crazy, psycho B1tch for the rest of your life"... My pops is a smart man!

Nice one pepper,thank you! I'll probably hit on Carol and see her reaction again,depending on it,I will talk to Amanda.Actually Amanda isn't a psycho bitch,she's a quite nice person.And I'm 15 btw,Ana is a bit childish IMO,she doesn't have a "women mind" yet,she thinks like a 13-14 year old.

I was wondering,what would be Ana's and Amanda's reaction if I got another girl..Their reaction would be nice to see,but I'm not doin' it.

[srq_jeeves]

Nice one pepper,thank you! I'll probably hit on Carol and see her reaction again,depending on it,I will talk to Amanda.Actually Amanda isn't a psycho bitch,she's a quite nice person.And I'm 15 btw,Ana is a bit childish IMO,she doesn't have a "women mind" yet,she thinks like a 13-14 year old.

I was wondering,what would be Ana's and Amanda's reaction if I got another girl..Their reaction would be nice to see,but I'm not doin' it.

Lawl at largeboarder.

So cute.


Amanda is trying to "Cock Block" you.
Ana sounds like a dumb slut.
You should totally get with another chick. It would confuse and distract Amanda and Ana long enough to make them realize they're crazy about you, or that they're stupid 14 year old girls.

Don't bother yourself with the drama of these girls. I'm not saying, "Don't get involved."
I'm saying, "get involved, but don't let their attitudes or thoughts/feelings affect your own thoughts/feelings. Be yourself and be honest, that's the best way to stay out of (stupid/pointless) trouble.

[Largeboarder]

Lawl at largeboarder.

So cute.


Amanda is trying to "Cock Block" you.
Ana sounds like a dumb slut.
You should totally get with another chick. It would confuse and distract Amanda and Ana long enough to make them realize they're crazy about you, or that they're stupid 14 year old girls.

Don't bother yourself with the drama of these girls. I'm not saying, "Don't get involved."
I'm saying, "get involved, but don't let their attitudes or thoughts/feelings affect your own thoughts/feelings. Be yourself and be honest, that's the best way to stay out of (stupid/pointless) trouble.

Thanks man,that was indeed very useful for me,"Get involved, but don't let their attitudes or thoughts/feelings affect your own thoughts/feelings" was a really genious thought!

Amanda and Ana aren't Brazilian names.

P.S.
Which one's hotter?
Just kidding

Haha,Ana for sure! She's slim with a giant butt,and has some niiice lips..And actually Ana's name is Carol,I just used Ana to be easier.Amanda is slim,but too much,she's good looking at least.

[Khonsu]

All Brazilians are good looking they just all have emotional and psychological problems. :P

[Ghost of York]

All Brazilians are good looking they just all have emotional and psychological problems. :P

Gotta disagree man...

[Jerrdan]

Remember when I said I give up?




Well, I double give up. All relationships. Like, friendly ones too. I'm so done.

What the fcuk does it take to get somebody to talk to me? SERIOUSLY. My breath isn't atrocious. I floss. I brush. I see troll people with attractive arm candies all the time.

I need advice. Like, how does one make friends, of the boyfriendly nature?

Do I need a shirt? "Talk to me. I'm lonely. Will take part in trampoline dance parties."

I will. Dance parties are fun.

[Largeboarder]

Remember when I said I give up?




Well, I double give up. All relationships. Like, friendly ones too. I'm so done.

What the fcuk does it take to get somebody to talk to me? SERIOUSLY. My breath isn't atrocious. I floss. I brush. I see troll people with attractive arm candies all the time.

I need advice. Like, how does one make friends, of the boyfriendly nature?

Do I need a shirt? "Talk to me. I'm lonely. Will take part in trampoline dance parties."

I will. Dance parties are fun.

For me,girls gotta make other people have interest in her..There are many ways you can do it,wearing clothes that may attract boys attention (But don't dress yourself like a whore),by smiling,by talking to people and showing you are a friendly person,eye contact is nice too.

I don't like girls that don't talk,they are boring and men often lose interest quickly on then,a serious realtionship isn't even an option.

[carvinconcrete]

Remember when I said I give up?




Well, I double give up. All relationships. Like, friendly ones too. I'm so done.

What the fcuk does it take to get somebody to talk to me? SERIOUSLY. My breath isn't atrocious. I floss. I brush. I see troll people with attractive arm candies all the time.

I need advice. Like, how does one make friends, of the boyfriendly nature?

Do I need a shirt? "Talk to me. I'm lonely. Will take part in trampoline dance parties."

I will. Dance parties are fun.

I don't know if I'll help because I don't understand what you're going through right now, but instead of giving up, get up and give yourself opportunities to make more friends. Talk to people you don't know, or even didn't want to know before. Instead of giving up, give yourself a cupcake and focus on the positives. If anything that will help you the most. Focus on what you want instead of feeling bad about the things (people) you don't have. You unintentionally attract those things if thats what you are focusing on. Instead of giving up, give time, smiles, hugs, conversations to people you want to be friends with. Again, I don't know if this will help or make it worse but if you don't try there is a 100% chance you will fail.

[Jerrdan]

bvhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. That's my head on my keypad.

I think I'm just going to spend the rest of the day in my underpants, crying.

Maybe I'll try again next year.
I'm incapable of doing all things said below.

[JFerr]

What the fcuk does it take to get somebody to talk to me? SERIOUSLY.

Heres your problem.

If you keep waiting for someone to talk to you it might happen eventually, but nothing is guaranteed. However you can go and talk to someone and make sure that the interaction happens.

Believe me, no guy would object to having a girl come up to them and starting a conversation. Hell, some of them might be wishing you would but are just to shy to go initiate contact.

At times I can be very shy and at times I can be very outgoing. Guess when I get more attention from girls?

[carvinconcrete]

bvhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. That's my head on my keypad.

I think I'm just going to spend the rest of the day in my underpants, crying.

Maybe I'll try again next year.
I'm incapable of doing all things said below.

Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end.

[DannyP]

You are a girl. Who longboards.

If you lived near me there would literally be people lining up to hang with you.

[hill-bomber]

My girlfriend just broke up with me because her parents dislike me.

[Delta]

largeboarder, **** them both

jayordan, skate more