Relationship problems... ANYTHING GOES!

[CRASS]

hillbomber, thats weak. what a bitch.

i have a feeling my ex is trying to belive if we just dont bone everything else isnt cheating..

and i feel like a sh!thead coz i treated her like total dirt and she still cares about me..

[turbochrged]

feel like a sh!thead coz i treated her like total dirt

hmm you dont seem like the type

[CRASS]

haha, im not, i just wanted her to break up with me so she'd feel on top of it and not just dumped.. coz i couldnt stand her anymore(meeeeeentaaaal issues.. haha)

she's matured alot since then, tho.. which is nice..

now she's just gotta stop wearing pants that show off how HUGE her ass is. lol

[Jerrdan]

I'm kind of terrified to read what anybody said. Yesterday was a bad, bad, bad day and I was a sad, sad person. Sorry for being whiney.

[WeekendxCarver]

I'm kind of terrified to read what anybody said. Yesterday was a bad, bad, bad day and I was a sad, sad person. Sorry for being whiney.

Ha venting on a forum isn't really whiney when done in the right thread, and honestly there is a time and place for everything. Also if someone isn't going to like you for being yourself its definitely not worth changing the way you act for their attention of affection. Like the said above your a girl that longboards you need a guy that longboards its like in the stars or some #### lol.

[Ghost of York]

I spent the 4th of July weekend with a bunch of friends from school and the girl that I dated last year. I realized that I still like her. A lot.
Pros: I'm almost certain that she still likes me.
Cons: I transferred schools. So she's 3 hours away.

[whatsisname6]

I'm kind of terrified to read what anybody said. Yesterday was a bad, bad, bad day and I was a sad, sad person. Sorry for being whiney.

It's aight. You just gotta roll up in there, slap some bitch(es) and tell him/her/them, "Bitch(es), I'm givin' you an opportunity here: you can keep bein' ho bags hanging out *insert place where they are* or, you can ride with me, the stickiest of the icky. This is a privilege, bitch(es), don't abuse it. Now, it's a celebration bitch(es), enjoy yourselves." And then if they get out of line, just smack 'em up a little bit.

[jefferywith1f]

Remember when I said I give up?




Well, I double give up. All relationships. Like, friendly ones too. I'm so done.

What the fcuk does it take to get somebody to talk to me? SERIOUSLY. My breath isn't atrocious. I floss. I brush. I see troll people with attractive arm candies all the time.

I need advice. Like, how does one make friends, of the boyfriendly nature?

Do I need a shirt? "Talk to me. I'm lonely. Will take part in trampoline dance parties."

I will. Dance parties are fun.

When you skoot around on your board.... do you think about every move you make? or do you just skoot? go with the flow? If you skooted with no confidence thinking about every move you made, criticizing and second guessing the whole ride, you'd likely fall off your board riiiight? So think: life is like a good skoot- Just cruise nice and smooth and don't think about it too much or you'll fall off your board! flow lady flow!!

it gets easier with practice ya know? don't do this: rather....

[WEEMANN27]

My girlfriend just broke up with me because her parents dislike me.

Did she tell that to your face, or act like she wanted to break up?

the second one happened to my friend and it was total BS on her part.

Sorry Man

[srq_jeeves]

When you skoot around on your board.... do you think about every move you make? or do you just skoot? go with the flow? If you skooted with no confidence thinking about every move you made, criticizing and second guessing the whole ride, you'd likely fall off your board riiiight? So think: life is like a good skoot- Just cruise nice and smooth and don't think about it too much or you'll fall off your board! flow lady flow!!

it gets easier with practice ya know? don't do this: rather....

+1
10relaxitmakeslifebetter's



But, "Flow lady Flow" sounds disgusting.

[pepperdro]

bvhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. That's my head on my keypad.

I think I'm just going to spend the rest of the day in my underpants, crying.

Maybe I'll try again next year.
I'm incapable of doing all things said below.

PIcs or it never happened...
okay now that thats said, Let me see if I can help you...

The best way to attract Friends, boyfriends, female friends (pretty much every kind of friend you could ever want) would be to be sociable. I know that you have a problem with that so lets see if we can't figure this one out step by step.

1. just go out and sit somewhere public. Don't worry about interacting with the people around you. just get used to being around lots of people. For most, just being surrounded by people makes them uncomfortable. This will help you get adjusted without diving in too deep

2. Start socializing with people that either come up to you, or make eye contact with you. When someone makes eye contact with another person, it's basically saying" hey, I made a point to look you in the eye, because I found you interesting enough for you to notice". just a simple Hi, and a wave, or smile will suffice. This will get you comfortable interacting with other people, slowly.

3. Once you notice that you can do the above steps without feeling anxious or even noticing it, you can move on to initiating the conversations with people you actually want to meet and talk to. just go up casually, don't worry about staring at them during the whole approach (that comes off as creepy) just do a sort of walk by and give out a casual hello, or start by saying a nuetral comment, that will lead into conversation. something like, "Hi, I just had to tell you that when I happened to glance at you, you reminded me of this guy.... and tell a real short story (made up or real) that will engage the person you are talking to.
Another way to approach would be to have a preplanned question... For instance"Hey, My friend and I were having a discussion and I thought I would get other peoples opinions... Then ask something like would they ever date someone named wilma, or would they make their boyfriend/girlfriend burn pictures of their ex, or something like that. you can tell alot about people just by how they react to these sorts of interactions.

4. The hardest part of socializing, is the approach. 99% of us build up anxiety about how things MIGHT go, instead of just letting it happen naturally. It is proven that the more you build something up, the harder it is to actually go through with it.

Associated with Longboarding... the harder you think about a new steep hill, or particularly difficult trick, the more anxious you will be when you try it, making it harder for you to actually go through with it, or learn the new process.

If you follow these steps, I will personally guarantee you that you will become more comfortable in public settings, and talking to new people. but you need to know the following:

you will get rejected. it's a part of life, and everyone is going to have to go through it... the more you get rejected, the easier it is to handle later on. When starting out, plan on getting rejected by everyone, because when you finally do succeed, it will feel that much sweeter.

When you do get rejected, pull back, take 5 breaths, and then go talk to someone new. Don't GIVE UP! Rejection sucks, but it also goes away quicker when you put something else into your mind, so why not go hit on, or talk to someone new?

You (everyone) is interesting and worth talking to. if the people you meet can't see that, then they aren't the people you want to meet anyway. Screw anyone that has a stink eye, or mean thing to say, because in the end, they will be the ones that are alone and shitty in life.

This process will take as long as you need it to, in order for it to work successfully, you need to make sure you feel comfortable in each step before moving on into the next one. a realistic time frame would be to hit step 4 in a couple months, assuming you are going out on a daily basis. keep that in mind.

Hope I helped some of you that feel a little more awkward about going out and socializing, if you need to, just pm me with specifics or whatever, and I will help when I get online, I have been away for a while. Sorry for the long post lol

[CRASS]

i have a feelin in the coming month im going to be competing with a chick for a chick.

sh!t aint ever easy.

[Archy]

Can't you just agree to share?

PS: Someone please summarize what pepper wrote. I'm sure it's really wise. But I misplaced my bifocals and I can't read that much.

[hckykid6699]

dryspell... that about it

[JFerr]

i have a feelin in the coming month im going to be competing with a chick for a chick.

sh!t aint ever easy.

Three-way.

Problem solved.

[Jerrdan]

PIcs or it never happened...
okay now that thats said, Let me see if I can help you...

It did happen. This week has been extremely eye-opening as I found out I REALLY like not wearing pants.

I'm making a conscious effort to get out there. A man cleaning bathrooms talked to me. It wasn't intimidating because he had a toilet brush in his hand. I think he may have been flirting with me, but I didn't take it seriously because he had a toilet brush in his hand. Maybe the key is picturing everybody with some poop scrapping utensil in their hands?

In August, yours truly is volunteering at a music festival in a town 1 hour and 40 minutes away. AH. It's outside my comfort zone, but I'm pretty excited because I will meet people. I'm doing JUST so I force myself out of my shell. Plus, a band I like is going to be there.

And your post has made me realize that I just need to be friendly to people. I worked at a mall kiosk and I got hit on the most working at that kiosk because I thought I could get people to come buy the lame roller shoes if I smiled at everybody that walked by.
Isn't it strange to just approach people and chat them up? I can't see myself doing that ever. Maybe in a class, but that's all I got. I'm rusty. Socialization is NOT my forté.

I guess the biggest hurdle IS the approach. I'm weird, and in a class of 100 in a high school where everybody seems to be the same... I still kind of feel like nobody likes me. Really though, when you GET to know me I'm not as weird as I seem, but I still feel like a freak.

I wish I didn't care. My feelings are hurt and all I want to do it be satisfied with what I've got.

[carvinconcrete]

You sound a lot better than the last time you posted on here.

[whatsisname6]

I found out I REALLY like not wearing pants.

How could anyone NOT want to hang out with you?!?!?!?!

[carvinconcrete]

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[Archy]

Maybe the key is picturing everybody with some poop scrapping utensil in their hands?

Maybe the key is picturing everyone like a stream of data manifesting itself as a funny little image with stats and buttons underneath? You're very good at meeting people on the internet.

That, and gtfo of Michigan! "Weird" and "normal" vary with the terrain.