Relationship problems... ANYTHING GOES!

[Voxheed Longboards]

Thats probably the funniest thing I seen today.
You should pass that around more often. lol

[anatharc]

Or

"What kind of music do you like?"
"I like all kinds of music..."

And then I just think "Go get an opinion, and maybe some makeup remover."

word.
I hate it when you ask em:
"what do you like to do?"
"nothing..."

BULLSHIT! you dont sit in your room all day looking at the dust gather! and if you do... that's SOMETHING!!! ARRRRGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!

[Largeboarder]

You can just go and hang out. Pretend you're a flame eater. In both places you will fit in.

Are you calling me a freak or what?

Or

"What kind of music do you like?"
"I like all kinds of music..."

And then I just think "Go get an opinion, and maybe some makeup remover."

Yeah man,right on! But when they do that I always something like "So you are a Gospel fan,huh?"

[apv211]

word.
I hate it when you ask em:
"what do you like to do?"
"nothing..."

BULLSHIT! you dont sit in your room all day looking at the dust gather! and if you do... that's SOMETHING!!! ARRRRGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!

Such a true statement. Nothing is rarely ever a correct answer to a question about yourself, yet people (men and women) seem to say it all the time. That's probably led to my most awkward moments I have ever had when meeting new people.

What kind of music do you like? I dunno, whatever
Do you play sports or have hobbies? No not really
So what do you do in your free time? Nothing...


You only meet people once, and it hardly takes minutes out of your day. When meeting new people I make it a point to inquire about something they tell me(a hobby, their job, etc), and sometimes you learn something interesting; other times you bore yourself for 2 minutes but at least you open the door to more conversation with that person. Really, you'd be surprised how far expressing interest in one of their activities can go.

[CaptainBass]

word.
I hate it when you ask em:
"what do you like to do?"
"nothing..."

BULLSHIT! you dont sit in your room all day looking at the dust gather! and if you do... that's SOMETHING!!! ARRRRGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!

Too true.

10fortruth

[Jerrdan]

Ignore this and know that life isn't fair.

[Dkofnrc]

Not so much of a problem but more along the lines of advice. Don't do this.... don't do your ex ex ex gf while on the phone with your ex ex gf.. cause ex ex ex gfs can be bitches and tell your ex ex gf you were banging her while on the phone with gf ex ex. Then don't let ex ex gf know your banging ex gf cause they might be good friends and ex ex gf could be pretty cool. In the end ex gf knows about you banging ex ex ex gf while on the phone with ex ex gf and gets all bothered for some odd reason. Say some thing like I wasn't on the phone... ex ex ex gf picked it up while reverse cowgirl it's not my fault. She will most likely slap you. Okay I made that last part up about reverse cowgirl she just was on top, but the rest of my story is true.

Short story is if your fffing around make sure its worth it or else it comes back to you.
This will be my last post for a long time. so love peace and chicken grease
DK

[Largeboarder]

Not so much of a problem but more along the lines of advice. Don't do this.... don't do your ex ex ex gf while on the phone with your ex ex gf.. cause ex ex ex gfs can be bitches and tell your ex ex gf you were banging her while on the phone with gf ex ex. Then don't let ex ex gf know your banging ex gf cause they might be good friends and ex ex gf could be pretty cool. In the end ex gf knows about you banging ex ex ex gf while on the phone with ex ex gf and gets all bothered for some odd reason. Say some thing like I wasn't on the phone... ex ex ex gf picked it up while reverse cowgirl it's not my fault. She will most likely slap you. Okay I made that last part up about reverse cowgirl she just was on top, but the rest of my story is true.

Short story is if your fffing around make sure its worth it or else it comes back to you.
This will be my last post for a long time. so love peace and chicken grease
DK

Moral of the Story: Stop f*cking around with ex girlfriends.

[CaptainBass]

Ignore this and know that life isn't fair.

Saying that is just the right way to pique everyone's interest.

[igotscars]

My girlfriend refuses to do anything about her roomate...

They have been best friends for a while, but living together has put their relationship on some pretty jagged rocks. Firstly her roomate doesn't clean ####. She somehow manages to use every dish in the kitchen every day, and leaves terribly raunchy smelling messes in the sink. Who cleans it? Either myself or my girl. Secondly she acts like she runs the damn house. She eats and drinks everything in the fridge regardless if it's hers or not. But when my girlfriend ate one pastry that she got her rommate flipped #### and made a huge deal about it.

Now this. This right here takes the damn cake. My girlfriend noticed several things missing from her room. This included the jackass box set(MINE), several other DVDs, her grandmothers costume jewelry box, several rolls of condoms, an expensive hair dryer THAT I bought her, and a TomTom navigation system that my girls mother bought her grandmother for Christmas. My girlfriend never locks her door because she assumed that her SUPPOSED BEST FRIEND was trustworthy. However she used her skeleton key to get into her roomies room and sure enough she finds everything except for the Tomtom and the hairdryer.

So here's where I come in. I tell her to kick her out, she says no. I ask her to let me confront her, she says no. I ask if she's going to do anything about it at all, and she says that it's not worth it to her to get into an argument. I'm literally dumbfounded, but I let it slide cuz it's not my place to say or do anything(according to my girl).

So things have stayed awkward in the house for a week. I've kept my mouth shut and the girls have avoided each other.

One day the roomate comes forward and says that her mom got her a TomTom. WHAT THE FLYING ####!!!!???!!? Everyone knows it's not hers!!! And yet my girlfriend refuses to do anything. She maintains her position that it's not worth it and that she doesn't care. I literally run logical circles around her from the position of kicking her out, but alas, to no avail.

So a quick summary: my girlfriend has given this absolute parasite of a human being a roof over her head that includes comcast, Internet, three full baths, a bedroom she can decorate, and she can even have pets. All of this for $250 a month. You can't find that anywhere. I find that to be extremely disrespectful, unnapreciative, and coniving(spelling)?

I just wish I knew what to say to make my girlfriend handle this situation.

/endhellasciousrant

[Largeboarder]

So a quick summary: my girlfriend has given this absolute parasite of a human being a roof over her head that includes comcast, Internet, three full baths, a bedroom she can decorate, and she can even have pets. All of this for $250 a month. You can't find that anywhere. I find that to be extremely disrespectful, unnapreciative, and coniving(spelling)?

I just wish I knew what to say to make my girlfriend handle this situation.

/endhellasciousrant

Well,I would do something about it for sure,talk to the person,no need to be rude.I'm sure your girlfriend fears that the other chick might leave if she says something..A situation that require extremely care..Watch out on what you might end up saying!

[BUboarder]

scars, bro...that really sucks. and you know what? don't push the issue. quietly keep telling your girl to not let herself get walked all over. because you know what? if you start going off about the best friend--who legitimately sounds like a bitch--being a bitch, it's not going to go in your favor. they're best friends. guys can switch up best friends if one of theirs screws them or backstabs them like that; not girls. the bond makes no sense whatsoever--it's illogically strong. trust me, i found that out with my ex.

her best friend is a conniving, backstabbing, slanderous, fake, lying, 10-faced mother####ing bitch, and my ex knows it...but when i tried to bring up the fact that "yes, best friends can change, and you really should leave her because she's no good for you" she was simply like "i know, but she's my best friend...always has been, always will be". i was like "we've been in this relationship for 3 ####### years and we want to get married...I'm not your best best friend yet?!

it's stupid, but if you value your relationship, you'll have to put up with it. it might take a long time, but your gf will eventually get to the breaking point. if you force the issue, and your gf gets mad at you, then that bitch friend has won.

[mikenike605]

me and my girlfriend have been conflicted lately. we have been dating for 3 1/2 years. I wanted to be an understanding boyfriend because I have seen alot of relationships go sour from boyfriends who dont trust their girlfriends.she however hangs out with guys alot more than girls which I understand. but lately she started to say I am not giving her the attention she wants(more physical). she got drunk at a party with her friend and got almost violated by a guy, I was cool and just asked that she not do it again. the problem is that she kind of intends to do it agian. she was my first girlfriend and I was most definitely not her first. I am having problems because she has been hinting that she wants to see other people because she is being hit on hot guys all the time. I on the other hand am pretty comfortable in the relationship but I am still telling her to go out and date other people because I can see that she is worried by the fact that she might be commiting to me and she hasnt still gone out and seen other people. so she is seeking other physical relationships, and I am not because Im not really attracted to any other chicks.

I need some guidence on what I should do with this break we are taking. should I try to get out and date others? should I just work on getting my other problems in life sorted out? she wont say we are broken up, should i just say we are done?

I still feel that we can work out. I would much rather she find out if she is really sure with me rather than wait till she was 40 like my parents and start cheating on the me.

[BUboarder]

should i just say we are done?

yes. dating relationships don't involve other people. she's either 100% in, or you should get out. if you stick around, pretty soon she'll figure out a way to turn you into the villain so that she doesn't feel bad about leaving you

[CRASS]

My girlfriend

thats hot.



unless youre not a chick.. which i thought you were... but ive been fooled before.

[mikenike605]

My girlfriend refuses to do anything about her roomate...

They have been best friends for a while, but living together has put their relationship on some pretty jagged rocks. Firstly her roomate doesn't clean ####. She somehow manages to use every dish in the kitchen every day, and leaves terribly raunchy smelling messes in the sink. Who cleans it? Either myself or my girl. Secondly she acts like she runs the damn house. She eats and drinks everything in the fridge regardless if it's hers or not. But when my girlfriend ate one pastry that she got her rommate flipped #### and made a huge deal about it.

that reminds me of the sims when you get your first room mate and they are such winey a-holes that never clean up after themselves and then pee and throw crap all over your apartment. I put mine in a small room and removed the door then surrounded them with balloons till they died of exhaustion, hunger, and bad hygiene. I would ask my roomate to clean up and they would be like "conragadilla... I dont have shouldnt have to clean up after myself"

sorry that may not be helpful for you. it wasnt for me in the end. it turns out that not only can the grim reaper not walk through walls but when your roommate dies, you lose.

[Archy]

I need some guidence on what I should do with this break we are taking.

Continue it indefinitely. You're heading into dangerous terrain. Part on good terms before the inevitable explosion.

Then...live your life and see if she sails back into it some year when she's not acting like an insecure, danger-seeking, attention-grubbing ho. Apparently people need to find the right girl/boy and the right time with the right girl/boy.

Just makes everything twice as hard and unlikely? Yup.

[igotscars]

thats hot.



unless youre not a chick.. which i thought you were... but ive been fooled before.

Haha I'm a male. Sorry to dissapoint

[Jerrdan]

I need some guidence on what I should do with this break we are taking. should I try to get out and date others? should I just work on getting my other problems in life sorted out? she wont say we are broken up, should i just say we are done?

End it. She doesn't want to be with you. If you do end it, and she decides she wants you back, she'll make it known. You can't trust her, and that's no fun for you.

Saying that is just the right way to pique everyone's interest.

Nobody's interested. I had a mild heart attack because a mutual friend on facebook posted a ton (5) pictures of my ex-boyfriend with girls hanging all over him and drinking and shiit.I wonder if people like him because he wears Hollister? Life isn't fair because he's not that great of a guy and everybody likes him. I hate him now, mostly because he doesn't end his "ing" words with a "g" and that's disgusting.

[apv211]

Of course that's the reason, Hollister clothing attracts floozies and d-bags like moths to a flame. It's incredible, the force rivals gravity.

I wouldn't really let it get to you about girls hanging all over him, they were probably hanging on some other guy last night, and it will be a different one tomorrow night. Slutty drunks just making rounds and hanging all over every warm body, you're better than them anyway. They will be the girls heading to CVS to get a Plan B and pennicilin for their VD in college.


For the roommate issue posted above, I agree she should probably calmly say something but if that fails, I'm a big fan of silent wars. Nothing directly aimed at her, my favorite is food in the fridge with laxatives in them. Just make some brownies or something with laxatives piled in there, and write "Please don't eat" or something like that, and watch the fun begin.

Also if you have a digital camera, leave it running when she goes out, maybe you can catch her in the act.