is it possible to have too much sex in a relationship?
Not really, I just hate when my dick smells like pussy all the time.
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Steve - Your rock bottom stupid, if you want to get banned try harder, please.
None of you asshats are in the hammers shadow but, I will say the new year will bring some forum changes, one of which will be much stricter enforcement of the general anti-hater TOS rules.
not trying to be a dick,but buboarder you need to go get some new trim immediately.
That is such sound advice.
Oh, and Steve: So glad to hear your gf has a vagina.
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Remember, we're riding on thin pieces of wood. We're fat asses and there's tons of stress. If you ride these skateboards how you're supposed to, things are going to happen to them.
i totally understand where you guys are coming from, and i have been getting out and meeting new people, and having fun doing that too. i've finally come to the point where i'm like "ok, you're single...open your eyes and check out all the beautiful women around you!!" and i really do have great self-confidence. often that's something that's missing when someone's depressed, but that's not the case for me. so i have my "mojo"
however, from the standpoint of going out and banging some chicks to "clear my head" well...that's just not how i roll. not hating on anyone who does that because you're free to do whatever, and i'm not saying i'm "better" than someone who does that either. it's just my personal convictions.
sadly, true medical depression isn't really something you can "snap out of" but i've surrounded myself with awesomely supportive friends and have finally taken steps to face it instead of denying the issue.
anyways...enough about me. someone else share!! keep this thread rolling. how about jayordan? i've seen plenty of your relationship troubles documented in other threads to know you belong here...
i've got a problem... me and my girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with the understanding that it would only be temporary... now i'm really regretting it and now sure she'll come back... what to say...
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Skateboarding at its best is an anti-fascist activity that turns the industrial wasteland of pavement into a canvas for individual freedom and self expression.
i totally understand where you guys are coming from, and i have been getting out and meeting new people, and having fun doing that too. i've finally come to the point where i'm like "ok, you're single...open your eyes and check out all the beautiful women around you!!" and i really do have great self-confidence. often that's something that's missing when someone's depressed, but that's not the case for me. so i have my "mojo"
however, from the standpoint of going out and banging some chicks to "clear my head" well...that's just not how i roll. not hating on anyone who does that because you're free to do whatever, and i'm not saying i'm "better" than someone who does that either. it's just my personal convictions.
sadly, true medical depression isn't really something you can "snap out of" but i've surrounded myself with awesomely supportive friends and have finally taken steps to face it instead of denying the issue.
anyways...enough about me. someone else share!! keep this thread rolling. how about jayordan? i've seen plenty of your relationship troubles documented in other threads to know you belong here...
i have dealt with on and off depression for about 4 yrs.
for the last yr havent had any panic attcks or felt really depressed.
i used to think it was all bs and people that need meds for it were weak.
first i took lexapro then xanax,now i do not take anything.
was a point where i would get depressed over things completely out of my control,world issues ,the economy,etc..
i found the best thing for me was to stop watching the news,it is always depressing ####.
the reason i said you should go get some was my way of saying go do something out of the ordinary for you.
break the monotonous routine.Do something to make yourself feel full of life.
for me after one hard break up,random chicks and sky diving helped.
just because they were things i was never into.
anyways...enough about me. someone else share!! keep this thread rolling. how about jayordan? i've seen plenty of your relationship troubles documented in other threads to know you belong here...
Me? Well, you know the story, I guess. It's just kind of rough because I don't generally have "girl friends". I've had a boyfriend since I was 14 or 15. My first boyfriend was a loser and the guy that just broke up with me was available, so I dumped the first one. The first one used to punch me in the head, so I'm not some sleazy sleaze. He's now dating my ex-bestfriend. The guy that just broke up with me was kind of obsessed with me since the first day he saw me in eighth grade.... so I should have taken that as a sign. I was hot siht in eighth grade. I had TWO stalkers. Anyway, I'm just really mad that I got dumped because honestly, I'm not that bad. He dumped me because I didn't like to talk about things. Like, problems he had. They were stupid problems. Like, he'd cry all the time and be like, "You don't listen to me!", and things like that. He was boring and embarrassing at times, he said stupid things and liked to sleep all day and the only "fun" thing he did was go out and eat.
I'd been texting him after because, I was bored. I was trying to make him feel bad because he deserves to feel bad, honestly. He's talking to girls and his ex-girlfriend the day after we break up. Then he told me to "get over it" and I realized that it sounds like I wanted to be with him and I'm totally degrading myself by even talking to him. He'd cry all the time about how "I'm his world". I didn't tell him that his thing isn't as big as he thinks it is, but I should have. SUCH an arrogant prick. He'd "joke" around about how good looking he was, and after awhile it just got so old.
I'm over it now, for good. I'm going to lose 15 pounds this summer, because that's how much I gained being sedentary with him. Skate, find a buddy and be happy. Pepperdo gives good advice!
Do you have any common interests with her that can bring her out of the house, and still keep you guys active?
Yeah, thanks for asking, I just bought her some speed skates (quads, so they ARE kooler than inlines... I'm sure I'll hear something for that one!!). She's into goin' fast but never got the hang of going sideways on a single plank! Rather, she tapped into her youthful skill as a quad monster and is tearing up the streets and parks with me now!
Now if I could just get her to quit clotheslining me and slamming me into walls, and get her to start doing it at the roller derby.... WHOO-HOO!! Little-bitty hot pants & fishnets combined with the thrill of speed and bloodshed!! Gawdbless roller derby!!! As long as it's only chicks wearing the hot pants!! Ew. Suddenly had a BAD visual.
So check THIS equation out....
Old man + sweet longboard quiver * young HOT woman + speed skates / camaraderie + love * great libido + ability to communicate = EXCELLENT AFTER HOURS SHENANIGANS!
I was trying to make him feel bad because he deserves to feel bad, honestly.
Jordan, you know I love you. I do. Not quite as much as Ferrari and Derv (you've got the SF 13 year old demographic sewn up). But I do. I think it was when you rocked the confession thread by saying you would eat cats and bugs. What guy can resist? You're a paragon of female virtue. You are. Which makes it all the more upsetting to see you acting like my ex-wife.
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Remember, we're riding on thin pieces of wood. We're fat asses and there's tons of stress. If you ride these skateboards how you're supposed to, things are going to happen to them.
...I'm over it now, for good. I'm going to lose 15 pounds this summer, because that's how much I gained being sedentary with him. Skate, find a buddy and be happy. Pepperdo gives good advice!
Thanks Jordan!
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Yeah, thanks for asking, I just bought her some speed skates (quads, so they ARE kooler than inlines... I'm sure I'll hear something for that one!!). She's into goin' fast but never got the hang of going sideways on a single plank! Rather, she tapped into her youthful skill as a quad monster and is tearing up the streets and parks with me now!
Now if I could just get her to quit clotheslining me and slamming me into walls, and get her to start doing it at the roller derby.... WHOO-HOO!! Little-bitty hot pants & fishnets combined with the thrill of speed and bloodshed!! Gawdbless roller derby!!! As long as it's only chicks wearing the hot pants!! Ew. Suddenly had a BAD visual.
So check THIS equation out....
Old man + sweet longboard quiver * young HOT woman + speed skates / camaraderie + love * great libido + ability to communicate = EXCELLENT AFTER HOURS SHENANIGANS!
Right on! I am assuming you guys are not so... "stale" as before? (bad use of the word, hopefully you know what I mean) Oh, and the whole clotheslining you thing? Why would that be a bad thing? ever?! Just make sure your both naked... Rough sex is always better! wait, you wouldn't want to see me in hotpants and fishnets?! HAHAHA
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Hell, the UPS man has come to my house twice this week with our gear and I just about humped is leg like a horny chihuahua each time!
Dude.... Epic.... I do the same thing!
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"this guy is gonna knock me up then go out and kill a mastodon and bring its heart back to feed our babies."
Jordan, you know I love you. I do. Not quite as much as Ferrari and Derv (you've got the SF 13 year old demographic sewn up). But I do. I think it was when you rocked the confession thread by saying you would eat cats and bugs. What guy can resist? You're a paragon of female virtue. You are. Which makes it all the more upsetting to see you acting like my ex-wife.
Ut-oh. Well, it just really ticks me off that he doesn't even care!
Well, an update to my situation, Apparently I am stuck having to wait around until she can make up her mind on if she thinks I am worth the risk of dating again. Why?! She is afraid of being hurt, and I leave Alaska in a year. I have already told her how I felt, and that should we get back together, and be involved when I am getting ready to leave, she should come with me. Last night I was over at her house and we were in bed (we still SLEEP together on occasion-sleep, not have sex) and I put my arm around her, and she told me she didn't want to feel like a player.... WHAT?! Just because she is sleeping next to me, but she doesn't know how she feels about some guy she had a crush on 7 years ago... is that really a hard decision to make? I always treated her like a queen, made sure her, and her daughter, were taken care of while we were together, I never get jealous, I just don't get it. What is it about me that makes her want to drag this out? I would rather her tell me that she isn't interested at all, than for her to keep stringing me along. Of course I don't say that to her, because I want her to realize I am worth the jump. Her birthday is on monday, and I have already planned a 4wheeling trip for after she gets off work(that's the kind of girl she is) and got her favorite flowers... Am I screwing this up for myself? or should I keep just being me... and hope she snaps out of this funk....I don't know... I am feeling so helpless. I never let myself get so attached, and now i remember why!
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So..I don't know if I really need advice. Maybe I just need someone to hear me out because I don't actually talk to people.
Here I go..
About a year ago, I found out my boyfriend cheated on my with his ex that he hadn't seen in about 3 years. The actual cheating happened when we had been dating for maybe 3 months. He had sex with her every day for almost a month when she came to visit him. I think I knew the entire time but never wanted to accept it. Then after he cheated on me he had the nerve to break up with ME! We've been together for 2 years (this past week) and the more I think about it, the less I trust him. He says he is completely dedicated to me now and regrets everything he did. I don't know if I should believe it. Sometimes I want to rip his throat out. Literally. Sometimes I don't want to be with him anymore because I don't feel like I've had enough experience with guys. Maybe there's someone better. But I'm too scared to leave what I have. Am I a bad person for thinking that? If anyone can find any advice to give, go for it.
So..I don't know if I really need advice. Maybe I just need someone to hear me out because I don't actually talk to people.
Here I go..
About a year ago, I found out my boyfriend cheated on my with his ex that he hadn't seen in about 3 years. The actual cheating happened when we had been dating for maybe 3 months. He had sex with her every day for almost a month when she came to visit him. I think I knew the entire time but never wanted to accept it. Then after he cheated on me he had the nerve to break up with ME! We've been together for 2 years (this past week) and the more I think about it, the less I trust him. He says he is completely dedicated to me now and regrets everything he did. I don't know if I should believe it. Sometimes I want to rip his throat out. Literally. Sometimes I don't want to be with him anymore because I don't feel like I've had enough experience with guys. Maybe there's someone better. But I'm too scared to leave what I have. Am I a bad person for thinking that? If anyone can find any advice to give, go for it.
well, seeing as how I have been cheated on (multiple times) I guess I can offer a little bit of advice....
What your feeling (especially at 17) is normal. A lot of people will stay in a relationship, because it's comfortable, and they are intimidated into going out and "trying again". Some people have the ability to get cheated on, forgive and forget, and continue their relationship without any problems. MOST people, however, will always feel a resentment and lack of trust that can never be overcome. This is my case.
My exwife cheated on me on a few different occasions (I found out about them all at once),. After I found out, I went ahead and said something, she apologized, said it would never happen again, and that she loved me. I tried for 3 months to let it go. I went to marriage counseling, talked to her, talked to friends, everything I could. Unfortunatly, (or fortunatly, however you look at it) I wasn't able to shake the feeling of distrust with her, and I was always suspicious after that.
As far as you wanting to experience other guys, I suggest you do it. Don't tie yourself down so young, especially since you have the doubts you have already. Those feelings are only going to intensify as you grow older, and worse, you are going to start resenting him, and yourself, for not living out your young adulthood. women between the ages of 17 and around 25 are at their prime age for socializing, because there is so much out there. I got married at 18 and finally got divorced at 22. I missed quite a few years, that now I am finally getting to experience. My ex wife was the first woman I had had sex with, because that was how I felt at the time. I realize now, that I should have waited longer to get married, because I would have seen that there is a whole nother world out there just waiting for you. You're young, and your heart will heal. Go out, have fun, and don't settle for anything less than what you consider perfection, because the truth is, it IS out there, you just have to open yourself up to it and find it. Everyone's view of perfect is different. I hope this helps a little bit, if you want to talk to someone more about that particular situation and don't want it broadcast everywhere, you can pm me.
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"this guy is gonna knock me up then go out and kill a mastodon and bring its heart back to feed our babies."
i've got a problem... me and my girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with the understanding that it would only be temporary... now i'm really regretting it and now sure she'll come back... what to say...
Tell her the truth. Tell her you want her back and you realized that you care about her more than you knew. Along with that, tell her to be completely honest about how she feels, even if she thinks it's not what you want to hear, or it's going to hurt you. Let her know that telling you the truth is more important, because the heart will hold on without the brain telling it to stop. The quicker you can get an answer, the better for all parties involved... less heartache.
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"this guy is gonna knock me up then go out and kill a mastodon and bring its heart back to feed our babies."
Re: Relationship problems... ANYTHING GOES!
i've seen plenty of your relationship troubles documented in other threads to know you belong here...
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