Relationship problems... ANYTHING GOES!

**a_speck_of_dust** · 10-04-2009 04:34 PM

wake, you dont want to sound like a puss, yet you come here sounding like a puss. youre saying you USED to be incofident, yet you are still "loving" her when she shows no interest in you and you dont want to even try for another girl.

i may have not experienced losses as much as you have, but you shouldnt feel down over them, if they were still here wouldnt you think they would want you to be happy? and if they were still here would you need this girl? and if they were still here would you have gotten clingy to her?

no. you probably wouldnt have. unfortunately the ifs are only ifs but you should benefit from your losses. live life to the fullest as they did theirs, because you still have yours. and dont let this girl anchor you down.

i usually hate telling people "there are more fish in the sea" but in your case you better go fishing. if shes been treating you bad and shes been causing you to act like an asshole just imagine how itd be like if you two got together.

@lizard

go for the quiet wicked fun girl. the other girl seems a little psycho, like the kind you would wake up with your pants down and your bed sheets and pillows on the floor with the bed youre laying on covered with a pizza box, capris sun puches and lays potato chip bags.

not that ive ever been there before

**wake** · 10-04-2009 05:43 PM

oh im not feeling down about my losses. i got over that.. the only reason i mentioned it was because they played a part in the background story.
she stopped being a bitch.. her friend thats also my friend noticed that she had gone back to normal.. during the time she was treating me badly she was dealing with a huge amount of stress and i probably didnt help that at all..

i suppose you're right though.. its just really hard.. i spent the last 3 months not talking to her and finding things to occupy my life and doing everything i could to get her off my mind and that didnt work.

btw my icon makes me lol so much hahah

**Largeboarder** · 10-04-2009 07:41 PM

Oh I love having songs for girls. I figured that only the girls I like/liked have/had a song for them, the others were just "others"..

For example, for one of 'em it was "Wet Sand-Red Hot Chili Peppers", that made me feel so good.. The guitar at the start is just cool.. Or sometimes when the girl is just crazy I remeber "Ob-La-Di Ob-La-Da-The Beatles" haha

**Cann0n** · 10-04-2009 09:47 PM

I got a good one.

I'm really like a girl that lives 3 hours away. I've known her a while. We dated for about a week. We never had sex but we've fooled around.

I had a chance to have sex with her but past it up. To better elaborate "had a chance", last time I saw her, many years ago, she slept in my bed with me, only wearing a thong. She was in the mood but I passed it up because I liked her too much for it to be a short lived memory. If I didn't care about her, I would have beat the brakes off... I mean.. anyways...

She moved to FL, then I ended up moving to FL too. She is the only friend I went to highshool with that lives in the same state as me.

So, I am traveling via car next Thursday to visit her. She is single and living on her own. She isn't well off, working 2 jobs. She seems pretty excited to see me. I know it will be an incredible weekend.

I'm going crazy waiting for Thursday to come. She is my dream girl really. I could easily spend the rest of my life with this chick and I don't say that too often...

The problem is, she hangs out with nothing but dudes AND lives 3 hours away. I'm in college right now and wont be getting out for 2 years. By then, she could be tied up with another dude... again (hence why we parted for so long). I'm not willing to drop out of school for some girl, because my life is more important than getting tied down with some hazel-eyed, big breasted broad, but I really like her.

I get jealous when she tells me that she is hanging out with dudes, because I know at least two of them are guys she calls for some booty, one is married (NOT a big fan of that). I hate being jealous. It only happens with females. I don't like whores and I fear she may have became one. I told her that I don't want to see any of her dude friends while I am there or there will be issue. That's how I am. You can blame my respect for her and what girls have done to me in the past for that attitude. It all do respect, I was there first... back when we were young.

We have been talking a lot lately. I know the only thing I can do is wait until Thursday to see what happens. I don't want to just #### her and chuck her, because I care about her. Some of the best times of my life off a skateboard was with her. We used to see how fast we could get kicked out of places... Walmart, the movie theater and the mall all within one hour. Fun #### you don't do when you get out of highschool, ya know?

So, my issue is... WTF does Cann0n do?

**jmasta** · 10-04-2009 11:17 PM

answer: Cann0n taps that ####. then goes home, acting like he has something to do, somewhere to be. then doesn't call right away...wait a day or two,,,, gotta make em wonder a bit, ya know?

**pepperdro** · 10-05-2009 09:00 AM

Originally Posted by jmasta

answer: Cann0n taps that ####. then goes home, acting like he has something to do, somewhere to be. then doesn't call right away...wait a day or two,,,, gotta make em wonder a bit, ya know?

I'm going to have to agree on this one, Cannon. The best thing you can do is make a woman believe that you have plenty of other things going on in your life that are more important. If you show her how much you like her, chances are she is going to just walk out on you. Women are really strange, in the way that they seem to only be attracted to someone while that person acts like they aren't really that interested. But as soon as the guy drops everything for the woman, the thrill of the hunt is gone, and then it's just boring for them. This changes depending on the age of the woman, but the concept is still the same. Show a woman that you have a well rounded life that doesn't include her in every part of it, and she will stick around to show you why she should be apart of it.

**Bevan13** · 10-05-2009 09:27 AM

iv got to agree with those guys on that.....i used to think that was all a bunch of bull**** then tried it for myself.....works like you wouldnt believe

**CRASS** · 10-05-2009 04:31 PM

that or just show her your native american roots....

....SLAPAHO TRIBE!!!

**Largeboarder** · 10-05-2009 06:40 PM

Good one Cannon. I say you just let it be, date her, sleep with her and sheet, and see what happens.. She can probably fall for you and you two be happy, or she will just keep hanging out with you and the dudes.

**lizardbowl12** · 10-05-2009 06:49 PM

Originally Posted by a_speck_of_dust

@lizard

go for the quiet wicked fun girl. the other girl seems a little psycho, like the kind you would wake up with your pants down and your bed sheets and pillows on the floor with the bed youre laying on covered with a pizza box, capris sun puches and lays potato chip bags.

not that ive ever been there before

damn bro, that made me laugh so hard that i started caughing like bad bong hit and my lungs hurt now...hahaha but sadly, i do feel like that could be a deffinate option if i go with the "crazy" girl. haha

**frankie18** · 10-05-2009 07:00 PM

i got jungle fever mutha ####as. Just got in with this wicked hot black girl. Thank you god! And shes smart too! Like Obama black. Im so happy!

**a_speck_of_dust** · 10-05-2009 08:28 PM

she was black as the night...

**whatsisname6** · 10-05-2009 09:36 PM

She didn't even put up a fight

**CRASS** · 10-05-2009 11:56 PM

Originally Posted by frankie18

i got jungle fever mutha ####as. Just got in with this wicked hot black girl. Thank you god! And shes smart too! Like Obama black. Im so happy!

whatever gets u goin, dude. personally.. no way in hell.

asians on the other hand...

**BUboarder** · 10-06-2009 01:36 AM

sweet mother ####er i'm so sick of girls and their bullshit...

**pepperdro** · 10-06-2009 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by CRASS

...asians on the other hand...

Originally Posted by BUboarder

sweet mother ####er i'm so sick of girls and their bullshit...

I wholeheartedly agree with both of these posts, therefore they have recieved my endorsement!

**Bevan13** · 10-06-2009 04:43 PM

why is it that girls are always claiming us guys are stupid idiots when we seem the ones who get screwed over

**pepperdro** · 10-06-2009 05:01 PM

Originally Posted by Bevan13

why is it that girls are always claiming us guys are stupid idiots when we seem the ones who get screwed over

because we are stupid idiots that let women screw us over...

sad, but true...

**whatsisname6** · 10-06-2009 05:07 PM

Yeah guys. I want this woman so hard, yet I don't....

**a_speck_of_dust** · 10-06-2009 05:08 PM

lol, today in history i was playing guitar and i swung it while i was playing and it the girl i liked in the forehead. and i was gonna ask her to homecoming too

oh well, im ####ed