Relationship problems... ANYTHING GOES!

**Whereisnumnum** · 10-17-2009 01:03 PM

Originally Posted by Jayordan.b

I'm really happy for you.

But really.

Relationship = cuddle buddy for duration of relations.

it was a bacon and egg burrito though

**Jerrdan** · 10-17-2009 01:12 PM

Originally Posted by Whereisnumnum

it was a bacon and egg burrito though

Breakfast burrito?

**Whereisnumnum** · 10-17-2009 01:54 PM

Originally Posted by Jayordan.b

Breakfast burrito?

they didnt say it was but it probably was only i had it for dinner. it was like 4 pounds(there were 5 eggs in it so idk how much that weighs)

**Jerrdan** · 10-17-2009 02:23 PM

Originally Posted by Whereisnumnum

they didnt say it was but it probably was only i had it for dinner. it was like 4 pounds(there were 5 eggs in it so idk how much that weighs)

4 pounds is kind of a big ass burrito. A gallon of milk weighs 4.5 pounds.

**Whereisnumnum** · 10-17-2009 02:25 PM

Originally Posted by Jayordan.b

4 pounds is kind of a big ass burrito. A gallon of milk weighs 4.5 pounds.

ya it was a big ass burrito

**killerzombie163** · 10-20-2009 01:03 PM

Relationship sucks.

Anyone ever liked a person who is really close to you but has a bf/gf? In the end, perhaps you both fallen for each other because you have just about everything in common, but the person picked to stay with his/her gf/bf just because you happen to be close to him/her and the person knows that you would not mind or be a douche about it?

Thats my problem. I've known the girl for 2 years, and we met in high school. Since we aren't in the same class (I have graduated and shes in high school) we hung out on some weekends or just w/e. However, we just got really close to each other and I guess our feelings came back. I spent a month with her even though she had a bf, and everything was well. She even said how her bf doesn't give her attention (doing things with his guy friends, other activities). I just always happen to be free to chill with her.

So recently her bf just wanted her to exclude me from her life and its just awkward between us. She also decided she wanted to stay with her bf and just have me as a close friend, but it doesn't really feel like it anymore because shes distancing herself from me. What do you guys think? I know theres not much I can do, but its like I'm always there for her more than her bf is. Her bf also makes her feel guilty and just bags on her during her times she spends with me.

I know if im in college there are college chicks, but still doesn't really hit the spot because I know her so well.

**Bevan13** · 10-20-2009 01:11 PM

Originally Posted by killerzombie163

Relationship sucks.

Anyone ever liked a person who is really close to you but has a bf/gf? In the end, perhaps you both fallen for each other because you have just about everything in common, but the person picked to stay with his/her gf/bf just because you happen to be close to him/her and the person knows that you would not mind or be a douche about it?

Thats my problem. I've known the girl for 2 years, and we met in high school. Since we aren't in the same class (I have graduated and shes in high school) we hung out on some weekends or just w/e. However, we just got really close to each other and I guess our feelings came back. I spent a month with her even though she had a bf, and everything was well. She even said how her bf doesn't give her attention (doing things with his guy friends, other activities). I just always happen to be free to chill with her.

So recently her bf just wanted her to exclude me from her life and its just awkward between us. She also decided she wanted to stay with her bf and just have me as a close friend, but it doesn't really feel like it anymore because shes distancing herself from me. What do you guys think? I know theres not much I can do, but its like I'm always there for her more than her bf is. Her bf also makes her feel guilty and just bags on her during her times she spends with me.

I know if im in college there are college chicks, but still doesn't really hit the spot because I know her so well.

i know the feeling man iv got the same thing going on except add in the girl used to be bestfriends with my ex and the big reason my ex dated me was to keep me away from her.....the girl liked me since she was in grade 9 and i had a class with her that i had failed, now shes with this guy and every couple months comes back and tells me how she feels....its messed up

**ShaggyIan4** · 10-20-2009 01:42 PM

I got this problem. Last week I went to this show with some friends and my buddy brought down another friends sister and her friends. My friends sister was pretty much all over it instantly, asking if I was gonna chill with her during the show and being all lovely. We go to the show, it was good and end up going back to my place and she stays over.
She comes down the next night and then two nights after that. Being mega clingy, she is texing me all day, every day, doing the girlfriend thing. So I sat her down and told her whats up, that I am not looking for a relationship and need to focus on my art, school, and work. Realistically, she just is not my style, but by no means am I trying to burn her. She was down and ended up staying the night again.
Then still constant texting of things a girlfriend would say. She rolls into my work and is constantly up in my businesss. I do not wanna hurt this girl for two reasons. 1. she is sorta cool.(she has done not cool things in my book that were very recent) 2. she is my good friends sister. What is the best way to lay off of this? Should I just sit her down and tell her whats up, again? I wanna go about this carefully, because she seems like the type who would be the crazy x-girlfriend that was never a girlfriend type thing.

**killerzombie163** · 10-20-2009 02:22 PM

Originally Posted by Bevan13

i know the feeling man iv got the same thing going on except add in the girl used to be bestfriends with my ex and the big reason my ex dated me was to keep me away from her.....the girl liked me since she was in grade 9 and i had a class with her that i had failed, now shes with this guy and every couple months comes back and tells me how she feels....its messed up

thats pretty F'd up.

The thing that kills me the most is how when we were "together" for almost a month, she always expressed how much it feels right to be with me, yet now it feels like she doesnt care. I find it f'd up that she says im a close friend yet shes willing to toss me aside as if nothing happened between us.

**Bevan13** · 10-20-2009 02:34 PM

Originally Posted by killerzombie163

thats pretty F'd up.

The thing that kills me the most is how when we were "together" for almost a month, she always expressed how much it feels right to be with me, yet now it feels like she doesnt care. I find it f'd up that she says im a close friend yet shes willing to toss me aside as if nothing happened between us.

thats a screwed up situation....in my book there are two things you can do....toss her to the side of the road for a while and ignore her or let her know what shes doing

**engebo_kelsey** · 10-20-2009 02:39 PM

Originally Posted by ShaggyIan4

I got this problem. Last week I went to this show with some friends and my buddy brought down another friends sister and her friends. My friends sister was pretty much all over it instantly, asking if I was gonna chill with her during the show and being all lovely. We go to the show, it was good and end up going back to my place and she stays over.
She comes down the next night and then two nights after that. Being mega clingy, she is texing me all day, every day, doing the girlfriend thing. So I sat her down and told her whats up, that I am not looking for a relationship and need to focus on my art, school, and work. Realistically, she just is not my style, but by no means am I trying to burn her. She was down and ended up staying the night again.
Then still constant texting of things a girlfriend would say. She rolls into my work and is constantly up in my businesss. I do not wanna hurt this girl for two reasons. 1. she is sorta cool.(she has done not cool things in my book that were very recent) 2. she is my good friends sister. What is the best way to lay off of this? Should I just sit her down and tell her whats up, again? I wanna go about this carefully, because she seems like the type who would be the crazy x-girlfriend that was never a girlfriend type thing.

just tell her straight up that you want to be friends, but you need your space. remind her that coming into your work is not ok. if she doesn't get the clue, you might need to be mean about it =/

**wake** · 10-20-2009 02:59 PM

Originally Posted by ShaggyIan4

I got this problem. Last week I went to this show with some friends and my buddy brought down another friends sister and her friends. My friends sister was pretty much all over it instantly, asking if I was gonna chill with her during the show and being all lovely. We go to the show, it was good and end up going back to my place and she stays over.
She comes down the next night and then two nights after that. Being mega clingy, she is texing me all day, every day, doing the girlfriend thing. So I sat her down and told her whats up, that I am not looking for a relationship and need to focus on my art, school, and work. Realistically, she just is not my style, but by no means am I trying to burn her. She was down and ended up staying the night again.
Then still constant texting of things a girlfriend would say. She rolls into my work and is constantly up in my businesss. I do not wanna hurt this girl for two reasons. 1. she is sorta cool.(she has done not cool things in my book that were very recent) 2. she is my good friends sister. What is the best way to lay off of this? Should I just sit her down and tell her whats up, again? I wanna go about this carefully, because she seems like the type who would be the crazy x-girlfriend that was never a girlfriend type thing.

you could tell her you've thought about raping her before.. works every time

lol kidding

**Bevan13** · 10-20-2009 03:12 PM

Originally Posted by wake

you could tell her you've thought about raping her before.. works every time

lol kidding

sounds like the kind of girl who might be into that lmao

**killerzombie163** · 10-20-2009 03:33 PM

Originally Posted by Bevan13

thats a screwed up situation....in my book there are two things you can do....toss her to the side of the road for a while and ignore her or let her know what shes doing

yeah. I still have the texts she sent me and it just pisses me off. her family likes me more than her bf too. Ive done just about anything and everything for her.

I feel like shes just scared to break up with her bf (theyve been going out for a year now) because thats all that really holds them together, not really friendship.

i dont know if id want to take her out of my life though. i tried tell her shes trying to ignore facts we actually have something, but she just doesnt want to see it. hopeless cause?

**killerzombie163** · 10-20-2009 03:39 PM

Originally Posted by ShaggyIan4

I got this problem. Last week I went to this show with some friends and my buddy brought down another friends sister and her friends. My friends sister was pretty much all over it instantly, asking if I was gonna chill with her during the show and being all lovely. We go to the show, it was good and end up going back to my place and she stays over.
She comes down the next night and then two nights after that. Being mega clingy, she is texing me all day, every day, doing the girlfriend thing. So I sat her down and told her whats up, that I am not looking for a relationship and need to focus on my art, school, and work. Realistically, she just is not my style, but by no means am I trying to burn her. She was down and ended up staying the night again.
Then still constant texting of things a girlfriend would say. She rolls into my work and is constantly up in my businesss. I do not wanna hurt this girl for two reasons. 1. she is sorta cool.(she has done not cool things in my book that were very recent) 2. she is my good friends sister. What is the best way to lay off of this? Should I just sit her down and tell her whats up, again? I wanna go about this carefully, because she seems like the type who would be the crazy x-girlfriend that was never a girlfriend type thing.

Give her less attention and maybe she'll get the picture.

**lizardbowl12** · 10-20-2009 05:41 PM

I don't know if this applies to this thread and if it doesn't than i'm sorry but i am in need of support.
About a week ago i bought a Toy machine skateboard deck to replace the one i broke 3 days before. i loved how it rode and how much massive pop it had. sadly it didn't last.
at about 7pm today, i snapped the tail off...

i loved this board, the ride, the feel, the look. and now its gone. un-ridable..i'm so horribly depressed becuase of this. Its a terrible feeling. and to make it worse...i can't seem to find the reciet to get a store credit

**Bevan13** · 10-20-2009 06:26 PM

Originally Posted by killerzombie163

yeah. I still have the texts she sent me and it just pisses me off. her family likes me more than her bf too. Ive done just about anything and everything for her.

I feel like shes just scared to break up with her bf (theyve been going out for a year now) because thats all that really holds them together, not really friendship.

i dont know if id want to take her out of my life though. i tried tell her shes trying to ignore facts we actually have something, but she just doesnt want to see it. hopeless cause?

it could be shes afraid of being alone and thats why she wont leave him.....and not necesarily cut her out forever just for a bit like the saying goes Absence makes the heart grow fonder

**AdmiralButterCrust** · 10-20-2009 06:42 PM

I have no relationship going on right now, prospective or otherwise. =(

**killerzombie163** · 10-20-2009 07:12 PM

Originally Posted by Bevan13

it could be shes afraid of being alone and thats why she wont leave him.....and not necesarily cut her out forever just for a bit like the saying goes Absence makes the heart grow fonder

hm thats true. i texted her a "good morning" as i usually do and its was just awkward. her words were hollow and felt very unmeaningful as we had a small chat. she hasnt texted me back all day, but I guess that is expected.

most likely i wont be seeing her even if i wanted to because she wouldn't want to see me (probably because she feels entitled to her bf's wishes in not seeing me). she's not a bad girl, but the way she does things is just

She wants me to go to her tennis teams final in like 2 weeks, i'm not sure if i should go now. I promised her i would and i havent broken any promises i made to her since i've met her (2 years ago). most likely im predicting her expression is "its ok. you don't have to go if you dont want to" if i do say "i dont think i'll go."

when she texted/called me about her decision to stick with her bf, she said "its ok if you don't want to be friends anymore, its your choice."

is it just me that hearing "its your choice" sound like it makes you feel sorry for the other person? it kinda piss me off because saying no makes you sound like a bad person (although she claims i have the right to say no).

**Bevan13** · 10-20-2009 07:34 PM

Originally Posted by killerzombie163

hm thats true. i texted her a "good morning" as i usually do and its was just awkward. her words were hollow and felt very unmeaningful as we had a small chat. she hasnt texted me back all day, but I guess that is expected.

most likely i wont be seeing her even if i wanted to because she wouldn't want to see me (probably because she feels entitled to her bf's wishes in not seeing me). she's not a bad girl, but the way she does things is just

She wants me to go to her tennis teams final in like 2 weeks, i'm not sure if i should go now. I promised her i would and i havent broken any promises i made to her since i've met her (2 years ago). most likely im predicting her expression is "its ok. you don't have to go if you dont want to" if i do say "i dont think i'll go."

when she texted/called me about her decision to stick with her bf, she said "its ok if you don't want to be friends anymore, its your choice."

is it just me that hearing "its your choice" sound like it makes you feel sorry for the other person? it kinda piss me off because saying no makes you sound like a bad person (although she claims i have the right to say no).

i hate to say it but thats the way things seem to hapen